In The Life You Imagine: Life Lessons for Achieveing Your Dreams, Derek Jeter lays out his top 10 life lessons. These are wonderful guidelines that can apply to everyone. Here is my take on each of Jeter’s life lessons.
1. Set Your Goals High
Always set your goals high. If you don’t dream big and set goals to accomplish your dream, then you will be disappointed. The quote by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry,“A goal without a plan is just a wish,” applies perfect. Derek does not want you to wish for things. He wants you to make that wish a goal and work for it.
My goal is to be a journalist covering baseball one day. I hope my plan of creating a name for myself through this platform can help me accomplish my goal.
2. Deal With Growing Pains
The road to success will never be easy. There are always bumps on the road. Derek Jeter had numerous slumps throughout his career, but he dealt with them and got back on his feet. Mistakes carry value. It’s where we learn, build upon ourselves, and get better.
People are always going to doubt you. Sometimes they are threatened by your potential. Harness that doubt and negativity into positive energy. When someone doubts me, it only fuels my fire to become a better player, writer and person.
It’s all about the attitude we posses when confronting our growing pains that ultimately helps us deal with and overcome them.
3. Find Role Models
Role models can be crucial to one’s success. They are someone you can always go to for advice and help. Some people may not have any role models they know personally in their lives, so they may look up to their favorite star as a role model. This is why I feel it is of utmost importance for “stars” to lead by example. We are all watching and many follow in their steps.
Some huge role models of mine are my parents, coaches, friends, and siblings. They are my number one fans and will always be there for me through thick and thin. Another role model of mine, a friend I made though my platform, is Tom Pipines of Fox News. He has taken me under his wing and I’m grateful for his mentorship. Pip is always there for me.
4. The World is Not Always Fair
The worst of things can occur to the best of us. Only focus on what you can control and strive to be the best in it.
5. Don’t Be Afraid to Fail
Who better to tell us this than a superstar in the game of failure? If all we did was succeed, do we truly know what success is? Our worst of times, bring out our best. Failure is a constructive obstacle that makes success more fulfilling. Failure is our opportunity to learn, improve and challenge ourselves.
6. Have a Strong Supporting Cast
I have never been forced to like or do anything by my role models. I have been able to discover my identity on my own with the unconditional support of people around me. You can’t reach your dream by yourself. It takes a village to raise a star.
Another way to look at a strong supporting cast is competition. Look at others in your prospective field as friends, but also as competitors to challenge you. Most importantly, STAY AWAY FROM THE HATERS!
7. Be Serious, but Have Fun
If you want to be successful in whatever it is you want to do, it has to be taken seriously. Work harder than anyone you’re competing with. Understand the task at hand and do everything you can to accomplish it.
If you have a true love and passion for what you desire, the fun should come along with it. Nothing is more fun for me than baseball practice everyday and writing countless number of articles to share. Everyone has heard that if you love what you do, you’ll never work a day in your life and it has to be true. However, as soon as the fun is lost, everything goes down with it. Work becomes a chore and motivation is lost. You start to “go through the motions.” Maintaining that fun, love, and passion is crucial to a happy successful life.
8. Be a Leader, Follow the Leader
Showing the traits of leadership will help you rise in the eyes of others as well as the ranks of your job/task. This certainly includes, but does not have to mean a vocal leader. Actions speak louder than words. Coaches will always notice heart, hustle, and attitude and they will eventually be rewarded. Derek Jeter was one of the best “lead by example” types out there. Not once did I ever see him not hustle and his heart was always undeniably in the game.
Another part of this lesson from Jeter, is to follow the leader. This can be taken two ways. One way is to follow in the footsteps of a role model. Another is, until you are at the very top, there is always someone above you to look up to. It is always very important to respect a superior. It will pay off in the end.
9. Think Before You Act
Every action has a consequence, good or bad. Ask yourself, is this good for me? Is this going to help me accomplish my goal in life? If the answer is no, it’s probably something to avoid. We must all control our impulses and focus on the bigger picture.
10. Life is a Daily Challenge
Every day we are met with challenges. There will always be good and bad days. Life is not easy, but we if we attack it with the right mindset and work ethic, we might just be up to the challenge.
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The New York Mets have signed free agent shortstop, Jose Reyes, to a minor league deal after clearing waivers with the Rockies to reunite the two parties. Jose Reyes was a star for the Mets from 2003-2011 and left for a $106 million contract spanning 6 years with the Marlins. He was then traded to the Blue Jays, then the Rockies acquired him in the Troy Tulowitzki deal. Reyes was suspended without pay (lost $6.25 million) through May 31 for his domestic violence incident last October where he grabbed his wife by the throat and pushed her into a glass door while in Hawaii. He was arrested, but after his wife was uncooperative with the prosecution, the charges were later dropped. Even though he was never formally charged, he still violated the MLB domestic abuse policy which led to his suspension. The Mets GM Sandy Alderson feels Jose has learned from his mistake, served his punishment, and deserves a second chance saying:
“I did meet with Jose personally. We talked for about an hour. Obviously, this domestic abuse issue was the focal point of that conversation. I came away feeling that he had taken responsibility for this mistake on his part, that he was remorseful. He obviously has paid a penalty for this, both financially and in terms of his career. He, I believe, is committed to ongoing counseling and support of organizations working against domestic abuse. And obviously, in addition to this personal meeting, we had a lot of internal conversations. [Chief operating officer] Jeff Wilpon was directly involved in this every step of the way. We were aware of the possible controversy this would generate. We’re also fully aware of the responsibility we sort of have to be leaders in this area of fighting domestic abuse.” Sandy also said, “At the same time, Jose was a member of the Mets organization for 12 years. He was signed at 16 years of age. He was a solid citizen during all of that time. And so, if you think of it in those terms, us as a place where Jose grew up, almost as a surrogate family, we felt that he deserved a second chance, and that second chance was most appropriate with us.”
“We fully understand there will be differences of opinion about this. Some people will feel strongly and differently. I think we accept that. We respect that. All I can say is both Jose and the organization will be held to a standard going forward that recognizes the seriousness of domestic abuse and a commitment to stand against it.”
Reyes expressed regret for his actions and is looking forward to future saying below:
“As I have expressed in the past, I deeply regret the incident that occurred and remain remorseful and apologetic to my family. I have completed the counseling required by MLB, have been in ongoing therapy, and will continue with counseling going forward. I appreciate the Mets organization for believing in me and providing the opportunity to come back home to New York.”
The Mets are hoping this second chance for their former star helps a line up desperately looking for a boost as well as add depth. He will spend around a week in the minors to recalibrate his skills before joining the MLB roster. The Rockies are responsible for the $39 million he’s owed and the Mets only have to pay him the league minimum of $507,50. This is a great low-risk, high-reward opportunity for New York. His role will not be as shortstop with the Mets as Asdrubal Cabrera blocks him there. He will be playing 3rd and even work in the outfield. Reyes should be slotted into the leadoff spot to boost the Mets order. He will also bring a much needed speed to a team barren of it. It is unfair for anyone to expect his 2011 batting title days coming back as Alderson said on his expectations:
“Do we expect him to win the National League battle title this year the way he did in 2011? No. Has he lost a step – maybe? Is he the premier shortstop that he once was? It doesn’t really matter — he’s not going to play shortstop. So we’ve taken all of those things into account. We think he can help us. You know, from a motivational standpoint, I don’t think we would be able to find a player who is more determined, more highly motivated to perform than Jose is today.”
I personally used to be a fan of Reyes, but lost all respect for him after his altercation with his wife. With the statements from Alderson, it seems that the Mets have and are continuing to handle the situation well. It is great to see the MLB as a whole handling domestic violence seriously. I hope Reyes has truly learned from his mistake. Based on the statements, both parties feel that he has. It is good to see that his counselling will continue while in New York. Even though I will never look at him the same like many others and rightfully so, I wish the best for him and his family and hope he grows from this experience. You can spend your life working hard, building up your reputation, and respect, doing great things – but it only takes one regrettable act to have it all come crashing down. Any man that hurts his wife is not a man at all. However, I do believe in second chances.
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